By “Alpha Males", we mean the males who've those qualities that attract people to them. Usually, the Alpha Male has created a life for himself and this life naturally attracts people – both males and females -- to him.
The Alpha male is on top of his game and doesn't waste his time playing to the galleries.
You see, people don’t really need to like you to come to you; they will always come around you if they believe you can help them get their problems solved.
The problems that could bring people to you may be financial, medical or even information on a particular subject matter.
What constitute alpha could be different depending on the level one is looking at, for instance, in high schools; the alpha male could be the brightest boy in his class or the boy who participates in school sports and exhibitions, you don't really need to like him but nobody in the group can ignore him.
The activities he participates in will naturally announce him to everyone in the school and even beyond.
In Colleges and Universities, the alpha male could be that “macho" man who participates in college sports, he can be a leader of his team, he might have won a trophy or some other things for his college, and his success announces him and naturally attracts people who want to share in his success.
How about that quiet and articulate young man who though, may not have participated in sports but his intelligence and ingenuity has won awards for his university at science exhibitions, he might not have been macho, but he is a problem solver, a leader of his peers -- that to me is alpha.
In a family, the alpha male could naturally be the person who picks the bill, the person with deep pocket and a kind heart who is ready to dish out the cash when the need arises -- could be your junior, you may not fancy him but all the same you can't ignore him, I mean, he pays the piper.
What constitute Alpha in the four walls of University or College may not be the same outside school or in real life, you see, if you participated in sports in college and won laurels as an amateur, that is not a guarantee of success outside school unless you can play professionally and get to the echelon of your chosen profession.
If this success can be translated into money and provide a secured future for you, then people, this time women, who are attracted by the secured future and the name you've made will naturally come to you.
These women know they will one day bear somebody children and hence will want a secured future for their families; they look very well at the prospects before they jump into a serious relationship with you.
Am sorry to be blunt, if you are languishing in the lower leagues of your chosen career the number and class of females you will attract will be greatly limited.
Don't also be surprised that even when you end up with an "alpha female" as a wife, she'll soon get disappointed or bored and starts flirting around town or wants out of the relationship -- she will soon be heading for the divorce court.
I want to simply say that "Alpha Male" is a successful male in his chosen career, no- more - no less!
Are you looking for "Alpha Males”? They are all around you, you, yourself could be alpha depending on the life you've created for yourself, don't look any farther --those in the political leadership of your country are alphas, what about leaders of industries, music stars, sports stars even some of your religious leaders.
Listen up, if you are a bloke, with broad shoulders and a hard-on, and think that being alpha is dependent on the number of females you bed or help to satisfy their sexual urge or fantasy, you better quit and stop trying -- you are at best " Alpha WANNABE ", a looser -- they may be willing to bed you but ask yourself, how many of them will be willing to commit their future with you?
And if they do, your next destination might just be the divorce court.
"Alpha Males" have a hoard of ladies interested in them but they don't see that as a reason to be promiscuous, but out of the many admirers, there is definitely a girl of their dream which they go after for a relationship or marriage.
Iwundu Peter
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